Breaking the Ice

Margaret Withers

What is a school? Is it like an iceberg?

If a person asks, 'Where do we find children?' the immediate answer is usually, 'in school'. It is a place we associate with children. The building is designed for children and the furnishings and equipment have particular age-groups in mind.

A school is created to enable children to learning and to be taught, but it contains people of all ages and backgrounds: pupils, teachers, non-teaching staff, parents, governors and members of the local community. Schools in some areas will have up to 30 languages spoken, with members of differing economic and social backgrounds, from different faiths and cultures. Others will have fewer than 100 pupils and be the centre and maybe the only meeting place in the community.

Some people think of schools as being like icebergs - huge, cold and possibly dangerous. Most schools are friendly and welcoming communities who want to work with the local community.

Ice breakers

The last 20 years have shown increased goodwill and openness. The spiritual dimension of education of the whole person is recognized. The spiritual development of the school forms part of an Ofsted inspection.

It is widely accepted that it is 'good' for children to experience worship. RE and worship are included in the curriculum and are also examined by Ofsted.

Most schools will have Christians in their community as pupils, staff, parents and governors. There may be formal relationships, for example the local vicar being a governor.

Testing the ice

Head teachers are busy people. Before contacting a school it is wise to know why you are doing it and what you or your church has to offer. Start with the following:

  1. Find out about the present relationships. There may be more than you realize!
  2. Review your resources. This will include people and talents as well as buildings. It will look at helping the school generally as well as with religious activities.
  3. Find out what the various local needs are. Is the school able to respond to them? Could you work with the school, for example by running a club in the school building?
  4. When you have done your 'homework', ask to meet the Head. Explain the purpose of your meeting. If you know the Head already, you could invite him / her for a drink or a meal rather than a meeting in school time.
  5. In any discussion, start from where you are, not where you think that the school is, and offer only something that you know that you can deliver.

Getting your skates on

Maybe you have decided that you as an individual have something to offer to the school. This could be because you are a parent or because you have links with the school already. Your witness as a Christian helping in school is important. If you want your church to become involved, see that you have the support of your vicar or minister and the church council before making the first step.

Nobody can enter a school without the permission of the Head Teacher. Nothing can happen without his/her support and, in some cases, that of the Governing body. The goodwill of the Head is vital.

Don't just tell the Head what you have to offer. Be prepared to ask questions about the school and to listen and learn. Most Heads welcome help from faith communities. Others will not want links with local churches for a variety of reasons. If this is made clear, remain friendly but don't hurl yourself at the barricades!

Starting Sledging

Things the church can do anyway:

  1. Pray regularly for the school and all who are part of that community.
  2. Include the school in any discussion about communication with the wider community or an evangelism programme.
  3. Report to the PCC about the church's relationship with the school.
  4. Go to school events. This is part of supporting the school and is usually noted and appreciated.
  5. See if church members can offer ongoing pastoral support or help with teaching or other assistance in the classroom. NB This requires a long-term commitment.

Invite the school to:

  1. Use the church building for RE and other subjects when appropriate.
  2. Hold special services, like carol service, leavers' service and so on, in school or church.
  3. Use the church for concerts or drama if the school hall is not big enough or for a group to perform at a church event.
  4. Display any special artwork in the church and make it known so that the public can come to see it.
  5. Publicise the various church clubs and events for children and special services like Christingle or Mothering Sunday.

Down the Bob run - getting moving with

Christian teaching and worship:

  1. Acts of worship
  2. Prayer group
  3. Pastoral support
  4. Lunchtime Christian Club
  5. RE lessons
  6. Parents' group

Christian Witness through:

  1. Being a school governor
  2. Helping with reading groups
  3. Offering skills like sports and music
  4. Assisting with class outings
  5. Helping: lunchtime or admin.
  6. Supporting at school events

Back at the hotel: Apres Ski!

Church in school

  1. Holiday club
  2. Midweek club
  3. Toddler club in hall
  4. Informal worship
  5. Church plant

School in Church

  1. RE related lessons
  2. History and botany (graveyard)
  3. Plays and concerts
  4. Maths and physics: tower, organ!
  5. Taking part in services

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